Art In Life

Our confusion leads to all sorts of unconscious and irrational behavior, uncomfortable feelings, and reactivity in our relationships. It can impact our ability to make or keep commitments. It can result in anxiety or withdrawal, even abandonment and betrayal. Confusion about love creates a lot of unhappiness.  What we yearn for is something very particular. It’s often missing in our closest relationships.  "We’ve wanted this simple feeling since we were born: it’s the feeling of secure, dependable love. " When children get this kind of safety and predictable care, they form a  secure attachment bond  with their primary caregiver.  When they don’t, they develop what the psychological literature calls “adverse developmental effects.” We never outgrow this need to feel safe and secure in our relationships . We are designed to be deeply connected to someone we trust. All of us, whether infant, child, or adult, want to have our needs and feelings heard...

Aaya Rakhi ka tyohaar! Chhayi khushiyon ki bahaar! Ek resham ki dori se bandha Behan ne bhai ki kalaaiyo pe pyar!!! As soon as the month of August arrives, there is a great sense of excitement and happiness that takes over everyone’s hearts. All the credit goes to the most affectionate and special festival of the siblings i.e. Raksha Bandhan which holds immense significance in the people’s lives who share a wonderful bond with their siblings. Rakhi recall a brother, his responsibility towards her sister.            It’s that part of the year when our televisions are filled with the advertisements of chocolates and greetings cards. Siblings are the most excited ones in the families looking forward to celebrating their bond of love on the auspicious full moon day of the month of Shravan. Yes, it’s the celebration of Raksha Bandhan, which falls on August 15th this year. It may be that memories will fade with time but the love that brother and...

Candy is childhood, the best and bright moments you wish could have lasted forever!!! Many people will probably agree that childhood  is the  best time  of one's  life . But not every  childhood  is happy. Some children may be born in a poor family or under such circumstances that make their lives bad. Secondly,  childhood  is the  best time  for us to gain knowledge and understand  life . Childhood, one of the best part of life for every human being. Its name only implied its meaning Childhood - full of innocence, full of life, fun at it's pick. Word become small if we start defining childhood. So, yes I agree with given topic that childhood is the happiest time of person's life. The most important thing which makes childhood memorable is love and care of the family and family members. A child has the purest heart any human being can possess and all that heart desires is love; no matter what the circumstances are. Any...

Personality shows what we are outside or what we are to the world, Character reveals what we are inside. As these are directly related to a person’s attitude and behaviour, most people get confused between these two easily. We all are same in many ways like we all have got the same human body, nature, feelings, mind and so on. But if we observe deeply we will find that every human being has certain different traits and habits that make him/her unique. It is a fact that two persons can never be exactly identical to each other, even if we talk about twins, they also differ more or less in their perception, hobbies, mood, nature, etc. Human behaviour changes according to mood. Mood swing comes with many things which may happen to us during day to day working which can make us sometimes rude, happy, sad, etc. it affect us emotionally as well as mentally. We should not let our mood swings to affect our lives. We should try to be happy in every situation, but it is not possible eve...

Who hasn't had the experience of asking someone whether anything is wrong--for it's obvious from their expression or tone of voice that they're upset--only to have them respond: "No, I'm fine."? In such instances, clearly they're  not  fine but retreating into themselves to avoid a dialogue they  fear  might end up making them feel worse. Why do people sometimes feel much differently than what they express, and why do they keep their true feelings in hiding? The reality is different people have different reasons. Some keep their true feelings much more hidden than others do. Many different types of fears can be at work in creating hidden feelings - Not being good enough, or just enough Not feeling important or visible Not being loved Or of being too much so you feel you have to downplay yourself to make others comfortable It is of course important for us to understand ourselves and know if we keep feelings hidden. There may be some very ...

Are you really beautiful???....Not by face or looks but an inner beauty?? Inner beauty can be described as something that is experienced through a person’s character rather than by their appearances or body images. Inner beauty is the beauty that is based on characteristics, traits, personality, attitude, inner beliefs and just the whole being of a person and the expression of who a person is to others.                     People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within. Our physical beauty can easily fade away as we age.. and what is left is our inner beauty.                       It is this inner beauty that has the power to change the world we live in. If we all nurtured our inner beauty, tended it until it blossomed, th...

             Have you ever felt stupid? And not just stupid, but really stupid? It can be only done when you have friends in life.. "One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood."               Over the years God has gifted me with many wonderful “heart partners” as I call my friends. Whatever would I have done without them? What sort of friends have I had? All sorts, shapes, ages, colors, nationalities, and sizes!                       A friend of mine told me she has a shopping friend, a prayer friend, a fun friend, and a challenging friend who drags her along to all sorts of classes to stretch her mind. Sometimes you can get all these friend s and more wrapped up in one friend - but not always.                  I am a better friend because of them...