Did you get what you want?

I hear ya, it’s frustrating when we don’t get what we want or expect. Your first instinct will be to give up or to look at the glass half empty. What I’ve learned is to do just the opposite of the two.

Write your goals down – not on a computer, but on paper or in a journal. There’s something that happens when we write something down on a physical piece of paper. You become a creator when you write down your goals. You are acknowledging both to your conscious and subconscious minds that where you are right now is not where you want to be. Your brain then makes this distinction and becomes dissatisfied with the status quo.

Remain independent of the good opinion of others and keep yourself fixed on your ability to attract whatever it is that you previously thought was missing in your life. When you trust yourself to decide what is to be your destiny, you don’t allow externals to discourage or influence you.

When you stop needing more of everything, more of what you desire seems to arrive in your life. Try this now: feel gratitude for everything you have at this moment. Know that this is enough.

When you know your highest self, you are on your way to becoming a co-creator of your entire world, learning to manage the circumstances of your life and participating with assurance in the act of creation. You literally become more manifest.

Once you do overcome the challenging hurdle and establish something positive, you crystallize another layer of strength – nothing becomes too big to handle. “Confidence comes from accepting and facing those obstacles and letting them make you stronger".